We kinda broke up with each other. She's something called polyamorous, where it's like a three-way relationship where three people date each other and I accepted it but I'm not polyamorous so it didn't settle well. She's been dating someone else because I told her I was okay with her being poly and I didn't mean she could cheat on meeeeee. It's okay but the guy always compliments her and stuff and I get very jealous.

I didn't even know polyamorous was a thing. Never heard of it until now

Gaaaah

I'm she apologized and I told her it was okay so I guess we're dating but she's like publicly cheating on me and I can't tell her I don't apprOVE because she's really sad all the time and she'll be sad

I don't know what to say to that honestly.;-; I would try to talk about it honestly, see if you two can find away around the cheating.

It would bother me a lot too honestly, knowing it is happening and stuff.

I talk to her because I know her irl but we both have kik and on our group chat is the guy and they both like flirt or whatever and I don't say anything and I think she knows she's hurting me so rn she's sending me heart emojis trying to make me feel better
I think she really does like me but I have really bad anger issues and if I say anything I'll start screaming or breaking things or something and she's got panic problems and she's really really sad
Because she doesn't know the guy irl she's also dating she's never going to hug me or hold my hand anymore we've been dating for a while and she has never done anything but hold my hand and now she won't do anything because she can't do the same with him

I just want to have my hand held down the hallway to Spanish class D:

I get what you mean, Blood

Ugh. My cold has picked up a lot since yesterday. I can hardly breathe.

I don't really get that blood, it's like she's cheating on you...I'm sorry but I think love is meant to be for one person only, not matter who it is, you can't be in two relationships at once...

Polyamory does exist and I do believe that she is poly, but I'm not and I can't be in that kind of relationship. Last night, I was going to Kik her and tell her but I got panicky and then she blamed herself and she hasn't responded to me in like fourteen hours and we have no school tomorrow. I asked her how she was and I just hope she doesn't yell at me. I have some problems with anger and last night I ended up like throwing things and I don't want to yell at her because I love her and she got really sad. The other guy I know and talk to on the group chat but I'm staring to get jealous and not like him it's bad

Think of how you're gonna talk to her about it first. I'm sorry blood, I agree with Gusty. Love is only supposed to be with one person. I have anger issues too(Reason why I can't feel anything in my hands anymore cause of hitting stuff.xD) But if it's hurting you, It's not good a good relationship. Relationships are supposed to be good and fun and nice. Not sad, filled with anger and worry. And cheating right in front of you isn't a good thing either. I've never really had a situation like this before, where somebody cheated right in front of me(There face would leave a blood print in the wall if they did), but I would talk to her about doing it right in front of you. Don't get angry, just ask. Think of how you're going to ask, then talk it out calmly.

If it does exist, she shouldn't be like, "I'm not gonna hold your hand since I can't hold his." That's definitely not how it works! That's not how a relationship works. Holding hands and kissing on the cheeks and stuff is how you SHOW that you're in a relationship with that person. If that's not happening anymore, it's not like it's a relationship anymore.

If you need any other help Blood, I'm here for you! I can help a lot with this stuff since I've been through a lot of different situations in relationships. If ya need anything, Pm me and I'll be there for you.^_^ Might be slow, but I'll be there.

Yes, a relationship is meant to be just two people. Multiple partners can work in fiction, cause they aren't really real.

And that's just not fair, not be able to hold her hand solely because she can't hold his.

I'M SO FRUSTRATED

I can't even ask my friends at school for advice because she doesn't want anyone outside of Kik to know she's poly. She's not cheating on me, she believes that I'm okay with this so it is my fault a little bit. Polyamory is the act of a three-way relationship in which all partners agree that it is okay and I told her I did so it is technically poly. The guy doesn't get jealous of me because he is polyamorous but I'm so jealous and she will either break up with me or get really depressed if I tell her but I'm going to get angry with her

Look at it this way blood.

You are a beautiful young girl and being bisexual opens up the opportunity for so many great people to be in a relationship, you should talk to her, tell her the truth and if she doesn't listen, she's not the right person for you but you have to listen to her too.

You are only what 13? 14? There are so many other things to look forward too, don't stress yourself

It's just so hard she's so depressed and it's almost dangerous for her to be sad and I want her. I thought about deleting my Kik and then maybe she would see that without Kik we were nothing but if I delete kik she'll be sad too

Look blood, its making you sad, you have to stop and think, am I happy? A relationship isn't all about the other one.

I'm just scared for her. When she asked me if I was okay with her polyamory and her dating this guy, I went, "Yeah, okay, whatever." It was really rude but she was so excited that she saw past it and she went "Oh! Thank you, I haven't slept in days thinking about this". She was so stressed about me saying no and if I tell her no it'll break her.

You have to be happy too, tell her how you truely feel, tell her that you love her more than anything in the world but you don't feel she loves you back, tell her you didn't really think it through and you would like her to explain her orientation. Does she love you? Ask her what she wants from the relationship...And tell her what you want from it.

You can't be together if you can't talk to each other blood. Try, and it will probably make her unhappy but you need to tell her how unhappy and stressed out you feel and you need to understand each other and be on the same page

I agree with Gusty. She'll get upset at first, but it's better to get it off your chest then keep it on your mind.

Today was better with us. I still got a little jealous but she's talking to me much more now.

That's good

That's good.

Star Wars 8 has officially began production :D

Awesome!^_^

I'm still sick.

This really is how it should have ended